Blogtober // A Friend In Need Is a Friend Indeed




I'm talking about friendships on the blog today. Gonna keep it to one subject: A friend in need.

So I need your advice. Have you guys ever had a friend that so clearly needs help but won't take it? Cause I do, and I feel awful.

It may sound silly, but when I die and people ask about me I would love for someone to say 'She was a nice person'. I try and be as nice as possible to my friends and people around me regardless on how I'm feeling. Being nice doesn't cost anyone anything.

How do you help someone that's basicallay screaming for help with depressing facebook statuses, no friends or social life and that has a douchey boyfriend that won't let her do anything. Someone that's physically and mentally been through so much. I've sent texts asking to meet up, saying I'm here to talk to and all sorts. No one else cares and asks why I'm bothering. I'm starting to feel helpless. I'm starting to feel bad for having good things in my life in case I'm making her feel down about herself.

I just want people to know that if you do feel down and sad reach out to someone. Talk about it. Someone is there to listen. And if not I'm here! Message me, I'm always free to talk and rant to :)

Comment below... I need your advice on this one people!

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  1. From what I read it sounds like your doing everything you can. If she doesn't want to talk to you or anyone about it you can't beat yourself up about it. And CERTAINLY don't feel guilty for having good things in your life. I think that when she is ready to come around and talk she will, it's all about just giving her time. Eventually she will get fed up with they way her life is going and she'll need someone to support her. I hope everything goes well. On another note, I just wanted to let you know that I've nominated you for the Sisterhood of the world bloggers award. I'd love if you checked out the post.
    xx,
    Bianca
    The Impossibly Cute

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